Check that user dependencies exist before running builders.

IMHO it's more intuitive if env.depends("my-target", "invalid-dep")
causes the build to fail when "invalid-dep" does not exist, rather
than having no effect (i.e. the build still succeeds with no warning).

This will make it more obvious, earlier, if you made a mistake in
an env.depends() call.  Otherwise the mistake could sit latent for
a while until you happen to notice that a build used a out-of-date
copy of some file rather than rebuilding it.

I've only added the check for user dependencies, not for direct
sources.  Listing a source file that doesn't exist will probably
cause the builder to fail anyway, so I don't think the preliminary
check is needed in that case.

build_tests/simple/new_dep

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